PORNOGRAPHY ADDICTION
Sexual
tastes vary from person to person. But with the current pornography
epidemic as some call it, one has to wonder how exactly this may affect
our desires and perception of sexuality. Moreover, how does it affect
our sex lives. Pornography constitutes about 25% of all search engine
requests, and is the 4th
most common reason people give for going on the internet. And well may
seem to simply facilitate an instinctual sexual response linked to
millions of years of evolution. The truth is pornography has dynamically
changed over time ultimately moulding our tastes and desires. The not
so shocking truth is that pornography has profound consequences for the
brain and acts in many ways like a drug.
Internet porn |
With
prolonged exposure our tolerance is increased and many often find
themselves addicted. Though it is not a physical substance, it leads to
the same general loss of control, the compulsiveness to seek out the
activity despite negative consequences and withdrawal when it goes away.
Much like that of gambling or running for example. The issue is the
continued exposure can cause long term or even lifelong neuro-plastic
change in the brain. During sexual process, the brain begins narrowing
its focus as it releases a tidal wave of endorphins(any of a group of
hormones secreted within the brain and nervous system and having a
number of physiological functions) and other neurochemicals like
dopamine(creates a sharp focus on finding porn), norepinephrine(makes
the brain more alert and ready for action), oxytocin(binds the person to
the images he sees) and serotonin(elevates someone’s overall sense of
excitement and enjoyment). These “natural drugs” produce a tremendous
rush or high.
Dopamine |
Dopamine
is released as reward whenever we accomplish something whether it be
eating to sustain life or sexual activity to produce future life. And
this dopamine consolidates neural connections in order to drive us to
perform the activity in the future. In other words, it alters and forms
the brain cells to motivate certain actions. It rewires our brain. The
national institutes of health measure drug addictiveness by testing
rats. The rat is trained to press a button in order to get a drug, and
the harder it works indicates how addictive the substance is. It turns
out that the more addictive a drug is, the more dopamine we see
released. And while there is unfortunately no rat porn that we can give
to them, we do know that dopamine is also released during sexual
excitement which pornography plays right into. The more time we spend
doing it, the more dopamine gets released which reinforces the behaviour
and makes us not only desire it in the future but require it. And as we
begin to imagine these images away from the computer or while having
sex, they become reinforced. Further more each orgasm releases even more
dopamine which consolidates the connections made during the session.
It’s a feedback loop that becomes harder to escape and just like a drug
our tolerance for visual stimulation has now compounded, making it more
difficult to be turned on by reality. Pornography addiction can often
lead to finding our mate less attractive.
Dopamine causes addiction |
The good news is, it doesn’t
have to permanent. Usually when people understand the mechanism and
realize it’s affecting their relationships, they can stop. There is
logical, scientific explanation behind how and why individuals get
trapped in pornography addiction, there is also a tested and proven
process for getting them out. The brain is often described as a “use it
or lose it” system because the neural connections we stimulate grow
stronger and desire to be activated while the ones you ignore become
weakened. Much like our muscles which if sitting all day itch for
activity but after prolonged non-use they become complacent. Luckily,
because this “use it or lose it” brain, the same neuro-plastic system
that proliferates these habits can also also be used to acquire
healthier ones.
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